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Help! I'm 5'2" and small boned. I feel overwhelmed with most of the wedding dresses I've tried on. While they are beautiful, they haven't complemented my petite size that well. Are there any guidelines that would help someone like me find the right gown? Marilyn B., Poolesville, MD 


Petite brides, such as you, should try on gowns that feature long, graceful lines. Look for dresses that feature the a-line or princess silhouette, as their lines will enhance your visual height. You may also wish too look at empire waists (they hit high on the waistline) to shift the focus higher up … another trick to give a bride a taller look. If you are small boned as you say, a simple elegant look may be better suited to your proportions. A dress with many appliques that break the surface draws attention away from the lines that can give a bride that additional perception of height. For the details used in the gown, when possible look for smaller-scaled trims and accents. In so doing you're bringing these enhancements into a better proportion with your overall frame. Finally, make sure to ask your bridal salon for the companies that offer petite sizing. The most important element of the dress is you. Don't buy a dress that overwhelms! 



I've fallen in love with a gown that is sleeveless, but my wedding is in a winter month. Do I have to wear sleeves? Elizabeth E., Vienna, VA  

More and more brides are choosing gowns that reflect their own unique style … regardless of the season. If you think about it, there are a lot of formal evening gowns that feature bare arms and necklines across the shoulder … and many of these have been worn on occasions such as New Year's Eve. So, the short answer is: if it's what you want to do, then do it. You may wish to consider adding some accessories that will help to formalize your look and keep you from looking too summery. Long gloves add an elegant finishing touch to bare arms, and a cape or stole could be worn over the dress when traveling outside.  



I love the look of gloves with my wedding gown, but I can't figure out what I should do with them during the ring exchange part of the ceremony. Any clues? Jane W., Rockville 

You have a couple options open to you. Some people remove the stitching on the ring finger seams so that the fabric can be peeled back and out of the way. Another alternative is to have the person handling your alterations to make a slit across the base of the glove's ring finger on the topside of the glove. When first putting the glove on, stick your finger through this hole, leaving it bare and tucking the unused glove finger underneath your palm. Since you are probably carrying a bouquet, no one will ever see your exposed finger. When it comes time for the ring exchange, you're ready. After the ceremony, you can then pull out the glove finger and put your finger back. The slit will then be in such a spot to let your new ring shine through.  



I'm trying to lose a lot of weight by my wedding day, so should I purchase a smaller size gown? Michelle D., Washington, DC 

It's always easier to take in a gown then to let it out, if you don't meet your weight loss target. There have, unfortunately, been all too many stories about brides having to run out and buy a dress off the rack at the last minute because the original dress wouldn't fit properly. My advice: no bride needs to add this sort of stress to her list. Talk to the store where your gown is likely to be ordered. Make sure to ask about the different ways your dress can be altered to fit a smaller you.


 

Connie Walker 
Aleya Bridal
Frederick, Maryland 
(301) 631-5998
question@bridaldesign.com


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